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vcmwPointless irritated livejournal-esque kvetching.
I have wonked a long standing friendship.
I feel... ok about this.
Stupid friendships that aren't exactly friendships anyway.
Mind you, there has been no fight. Had there been a fight, at any point over the last 2-3 months, then the friendship wouldn't be wonked.
What there has been, has been mutual uncontrolled cattiness.
I am definitely, mmm, 75% at fault.
But I think I am 75% at fault primarily because of, how shall I say, my inability to deal in any even vaguely normal fashion with the 25% that is the other person's fault.
This is the kind of wonked where if we don't talk about it, politely, then in 2 or 3 years it will be as if it never were.
But I think it's the same argument this person and I have been not having for 14 years now and enough is enough.
I have wonked a long standing friendship.
I feel... ok about this.
Stupid friendships that aren't exactly friendships anyway.
Mind you, there has been no fight. Had there been a fight, at any point over the last 2-3 months, then the friendship wouldn't be wonked.
What there has been, has been mutual uncontrolled cattiness.
I am definitely, mmm, 75% at fault.
But I think I am 75% at fault primarily because of, how shall I say, my inability to deal in any even vaguely normal fashion with the 25% that is the other person's fault.
This is the kind of wonked where if we don't talk about it, politely, then in 2 or 3 years it will be as if it never were.
But I think it's the same argument this person and I have been not having for 14 years now and enough is enough.
